Two horrifying events took place this month – independent, yet born from the same dark place that society has descended to.
One, the brutal murders of 27 people, 20 of them first-graders, in Newtown, CT. The photographs of the children are heartbreaking – kids with so much joy and happiness, taken from loved ones in mere seconds. I’ve lived in the States for around 10 years now, and this is probably the most anger that I’ve seen from the public following a shooting. People are outraged and this time, hopefully, the collective anger can finally translate into a wave of support for President Obama’s plans to push through gun control reform next year.
Two, the gang rape that occurred in New Delhi a couple of weeks ago – the horror and brutality of which has stunned India. Yes, sexual violence occurs on a daily basis in India at an unimaginable scale and yet, very little has come close to angering the public the way this rape has. The cowardice with which the government has reacted has probably outraged people even more, showing just how out of touch our leaders are. Protests are taking place all over the country, especially in Delhi, and one can only hope that this is the wake-up call politicians needed to get serious about women’s rights in India.
I’ve been amazed at the parallels between the response in the U.S. and India, especially around the role of culture in propagating violence. Media outlets and politicians have been quick to target violent video games in the U.S., the same way the Indian media has been to single out the ‘sexualization’ of Bollywood. Another has been around how the media has responded to the stories, with equal levels of poor journalism and self-introspection not long after the incidents had taken place.
More than anything, the biggest parallel that between the incidents themselves is why they happen in the first place. What is it in humans that devolves into killing, violating or hurting innocent people (a more complicated topic is violence against people one knows – far more common, and difficult to unpack). My own view is that the blame falls squarely on the environment around us. Whether it is a society that ferociously defends its right to bear arms or one that has little regard for the safety and protection of women, our environment is the invisible force that nurtures us while young and contributes to our thinking as we get older, through our parents or others around us. It is also the one thing that we are most resistant to change. After all, why would a group of people choose to admit that their way of thinking after all these years is utterly wrong.
But there has never been a greater need to do so. Children should not be gunned down in the middle of their classrooms. Women and girls should not be gang raped and disemboweled while returning home from a movie. People should not lose their lives to the fury of another’s mind. Let us hope that 2013 makes the people, and our leaders, finally abide by the words- never again.